I wasn't always the person who showed up. I was someone who'd get stuck in traffic on the way to work and genuinely weigh up whether McDonald's breakfast and video games were the better option. Sometimes they won.
So when people ask me about career growth and leadership, I'm not coming at it from a place of always having it figured out. I'm coming at it from the other side entirely.
And the reason everything changed? One manager. One conversation.
It's a mindset shift the industry needs right now. CSC's State of Customer Success 2026 Report found that 43.9% of CS professionals want a promotion within their current company, yet 71% are actively job hunting anyway, a sign that a lot of people are waiting for a tap on the shoulder that isn't coming.
The moment that changed everything
I was four days shy of 18 years old when I started at AT&T Wireless as a customer service representative. I was sitting in a one-on-one with my manager, listening back to one of my calls.
She paused it halfway through and said something I genuinely wasn't expecting. She told me I had an incredible customer service voice. That people wanted to listen to me. That I made their day better. And that she thought I could be really good at this, if I was willing to commit.
She could have talked about my attendance. She could have put me on a write-up. Instead, she chose to inspire. She promised to put me through at least one training a month, to invest in my learning and growth, and to help me explore leadership.
For the first time, somebody believed I could be good at something. And I wanted to be what she saw in me.
I showed up. I committed. I took every training she offered. 10 years later, I left as the regional quality manager for the entire West Coast.
Not because I was the most talented person in the room, but because someone believed in me, and I chose to meet that belief with action.

Promotions are a lagging indicator
Here's something worth sitting with: most of us are waiting.
Waiting to be ready. Waiting to get noticed. Waiting for someone to tap us on the shoulder and say, "I think you could be really good at this." We're waiting for the promotion to arrive before we start acting like the person who deserves it.
Career advancement doesn't happen when you're idle. It happens when you move.
Promotions are a lagging indicator of the work you've already been doing. The growth, the learning, and the leadership you've been practicing in your everyday that's what earns the title. The title just confirms what's already true.
So stop waiting to feel ready. If you're waiting to feel ready, you're waiting too long.
We all carry some level of impostor syndrome. Every person I mentor (and I do a lot of mentoring) has some version of that inner voice saying they're not good enough. But here's what's also true: you got hired for the job you have right now because you're capable. Whatever you're thinking about doing next, do it. You have something to offer.
The goal is to be undeniable. And that starts now.
Career growth is cumulative, not a single breakthrough
One of the biggest misconceptions about career growth is that it's waiting for one big moment. A breakthrough. A single decision that changes everything.
It's not. Career growth is an accumulation of small learnings, applied consistently over time. It looks like:
- Sitting at the table when you haven't been formally invited
- Voicing a gap or an opportunity when you spot one
- Being vulnerable enough to say, "I'm a little stuck here," because if you're stuck, someone else probably is too, and naming it creates space to solve it together
One hour a week is 52 hours a year. That's undeniable growth by the time you reach the end of the next twelve months.
You don't need to know exactly where you're going to invest in your learning. The point is arming yourself with tools and perspective so that when the right opportunity arrives, you're already ready. You've done the work.
12 ways to build career momentum right now
Let's get practical. Here are the strategies I share with every CS professional I work with.

